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The image above is static, but the counters you can get on the site are real stats. I didn’t realize saying something is “so gay” is still used or seen as acceptable. Clearly it is.
I can’t recall if I personally used the term “gay” as a negative word when I was in middle or high school, but I know I was not actively opposed to it then either. My guess is that youth are the primary users of these terms, but I could be wrong.
Have you heard someone recently use the “gay” as a negative slur?

The image above is static, but the counters you can get on the site are real stats. I didn’t realize saying something is “so gay” is still used or seen as acceptable. Clearly it is.

I can’t recall if I personally used the term “gay” as a negative word when I was in middle or high school, but I know I was not actively opposed to it then either. My guess is that youth are the primary users of these terms, but I could be wrong.

Have you heard someone recently use the “gay” as a negative slur?


  1. somekindofbethany answered: More than you know
  2. labradorinuk answered: But it says that their goal is 0.
  3. trekkim reblogged this from tryingtofollow
  4. strifestryker answered: so retarded.
  5. klavr answered: No
  6. twe12th reblogged this from tryingtofollow and added:
    A friend from Wheaton posted this. Hopefully
  7. ron1egend reblogged this from nilla and added:
    Interesting idea.
  8. swankmatt reblogged this from tryingtofollow
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  10. geekylove answered: As long as no ones beating the crap out of each other I’m good.
  11. coreyharris answered: I say it to describe stupid things and to describe being happy. I don’t think of gay people as gay or having a label like that.
  12. mattplace answered: Yes, frequently by people of all ages below 40.
  13. forefootinto answered: It doesn’t have to be an insult. Something can be stereotypically gay and that can be a compliment. Gay does not equal bad.
  14. jillwise answered: Where I live (London, Canada) people say that all the time and I hate it.
  15. beckysanspants answered: I hear it used as an adjective to describe something stupid or weird by high school students.
  16. fashionz reblogged this from tryingtofollow and added:
    clearly i should stop,...just comes out, sigh.
  17. ianpaxson answered: I hear it ALL the time
  18. littleredhead answered: so many people on tumblr and in school and it just angers me how ignorant people can be.
  19. nilla reblogged this from tryingtofollow
  20. resurrectionfern answered: Yeah, this was common in high school, last year. We’d reply with “yeah that totally is attracted to people of the same gender, right on”.
  21. chrystianvanessa reblogged this from tryingtofollow
  22. viewparadise answered: My brother and his friends do that all the time.
  23. jjjjasmine reblogged this from tryingtofollow
  24. kangrejoman answered: that’s is so gay dood
  25. sarahclare answered: only when referring to my gays
  26. jjjjasmine answered: yes. it’s disappointing. but then again, ‘saying things are gay is gay.’
  27. judahkong answered: I use it every day!
  28. mango- answered: Ummm yeah, my sister. Talk about slap in the face to me.
  29. slowgraffiti answered: I teach middle school. So. Yes. One student uses “bay” now instead so he doesn’t get my evil eye.
  30. ashlyncommathe answered: A lot. As well as people calling other people “faggot”. It drives me insane.
  31. thelastdayofmagic answered: Very often. But never where the speaker has meant gay as in homosexual.
  32. kaizer answered: Often. Meanings have already changed.
  33. ericrobertsswagger reblogged this from tryingtofollow
  34. nightaftersidewalk answered: i do say it, but. i’m also gay. i need to stop though, it’s hypocritical
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